John Legend recognizes he is living his dream

John Legend...living his career dream

John Legend…living his career dream

By Karen Adamedes

Last Saturday I had the pleasure of seeing singer-songwriter John Legend in concert in one of Australia’s wine regions, the Hunter Valley.

The music was brilliant, the moon was full, the wine was cold and the rain was falling (did I mention it was an outdoor show?)…it was a great night.

Helping his Australian audience get to know him a little more, Legend interspersed some of his songs with stories about his musical journey and history.

He told a story that made me think and I thought my career team (that’s you) might like to hear…

He talked about moving to New York City in 2000 when he finished college. Taking a big risk. With very big dreams.

Dreams, he said, that are exactly the life that he is living now.

Love it!

He knew what his dream was…and he can recognize that he is living it now.

His story made me think about is how important to have a dream, know exactly what it is and be able to recognize what you’ve achieved.

You might not win 9 Grammys but whatever you want…dream big, know what it looks like and enjoy it when you see it!

My interview on Live TV. The options – panic or prepare?

coffee sky interview

Coffee and rehearsal notes were all part of my preparation. And a side order of panic.

By Karen Adamedes

My regular readers would be familiar with my frequent urging to rehearse before presentations, negotiations and any activity that is going to put you in the spotlight.

These are opportunities to build your credibility, demonstrate what you know and how you think. But the reality is that we are all so busy that we (me included) sometimes take shortcuts and work on the, “it’ll be alright on the night” philosophy.

But last week I had an opportunity to put my money where my mouth is. Walk the talk. Practise what I preach. (You get the drill!)

I had the fabulous opportunity (aka nerve wracking experience) of being asked to be a guest on the national Australian Sky Business channel for an interview on change management. (When I am not blogging, writing, speaking about careers this is the topic I work in as a management consultant).

Fabulous opportunity for credibility. Unique chance to sharpen my skills. Thrilled to be asked. Of course, I agreed. That was a couple of weeks ago.

As the day of the interview approached it also became a chance to wonder what on earth I had got myself into and how I was going to calm the nerves to be interviewed (and make sense!)? Live. On National TV. (No pressure there at all!)

I reviewed my options.

1. I couldn’t pull out. Loss of credibility. Loss of opportunity. Not a good look. Not an option.

2. I could prepare and rehearse (exactly like I go on from my soapbox about!) and do the very best I could. It didn’t need to be an Emmy winning performance. Only option.

Fortunately the producer who had booked me in was a real professional and sent me the potential questions in advance.

So I was able to start by working in a way I am comfortable –  writing. I wrote the answers to the questions in bullet points. I then sent them off to a trusted adviser, got their feedback and made a few minor tweaks.

Next, I rehearsed the answers out loud so I could see what sounded okay, if any of the wording was clunky and if I was actually answering the question and, you guessed it, there were a few more tweaks required.

After putting aside for a day I went back and reviewed my content again, and got each answer down to three words that would prompt me to remember what I wanted to say (this was a technique I had used at university for exam preparation).

I wrote up my notes, with all my word prompts, in big type – in hopeful anticipation that I could have them in front of me at the interview and set about remembering them verbatim as much as I could.

In the meantime I recorded and watched an episode of the show so that I could see what the set up was and who the interviewer was and their style. I decided what I was going to wear, got a manicure (I talk with my hands so that was essential) and arranged to get my hair done on the day. Too late to loose some more weight but I was as ready as I could be!

And then I decided to panic. “What”, I asked myself, “makes you think that you can do this?”

So I gave myself a talking to / pep talk.

I had done a TV interview 4 years ago when my book, “Hot Tips for Career Chicks” first came out. And survived. But maybe that was a one off wonder? And it was 4 years ago!

I reminded myself that I have made hundreds of presentations to large audiences, small audiences, senior audiences, tough audiences, over my career. I’d learnt to be myself and focus on my audience and what they wanted to hear about and my content. That resonated a little more strongly.

If I could talk about what I knew for all those presentations, then I could talk about what I know. It’s just that it would be on TV. Live. Nationally. (Panic stations anyone?)

And then I remembered what someone said to me before my first TV foray. “You know what you’re talking about. You care about it. You will be fine.”

And I did. And I was.

My preparation allowed me to be adapt to the situation – it was a different interviewer (the episode I watched the regular presenter had been on holidays!) but the style and the tone of the interview was as I had prepared. And I needed every second of that preparation time.

Two solid days of preparation came down to a 12 minute interview with another guest so that was about 5 minutes of talking for me.

No one from the Emmy’s has called and I know the things I can improve for next time. But I have been invited back for next year. So it must have been at least okay. I didn’t embarrass myself and I didn’t say anything dumb. (Yeh!) And next time will be easier (surely!)

And what a reminder about the importance of preparation and rehearsals…and a chance to stretch myself!

You might not put yourself through the same experience but any chance to present or be under the spotlight can be nerve wracking.

But if you know what you’re talking about. You care about it. And you prepare – you will be fine.

Go forth, Prepare, Rehearse and Present. ‘Cause it does feel really good when you’re done! 🙂

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11 types of job interviews and how to survive them

She's come preparedby Alice Young

If you’re looking for a new job, your first job, or a change in career, chances are you will be “subject to” a selection process.

I use the term “subject to” deliberately, as when you’re experiencing it, more often than not it feels like it’s being “done to you”.

And yes, there is a War for Talent going on, and yes that should mean that every company is focused on hiring great people (just like you), and should have thought long and hard about their selection process and whether it is fit for purpose.  But unfortunately so many companies get this WRONG.

So what might you face if you’re looking for a job, and what can you do to get through it?

The Agency Recruitment Interview

Many companies use external recruiters rather than doing their recruitment themselves.  For you as an applicant this can be an issue as many recruiters are sales-people rather than “talent attraction specialists”, and so it can be difficult to even get to an interview.  And if you do get one, you may be surprised by the lack of knowledge the recruiter has of a job that you’ve either been doing for years and know inside-out, or have done all the research on and been working towards in your career (and know inside-out).

Tip for surviving: own the interview.

Take the recruiter through why you’re appropriate for the role.  Ask at the end whether there’s any extra information that they need.  Ask how you rate against the other applicants they’ve seen and whether there’s any reason you wouldn’t be put forward to their client.  Follow up two days later.  If you want the job, also use your networks to ensure that the hiring manager knows that you’ve applied, and see if you can get recommended to them directly.  Don’t sideline the recruiter, but use your networks in parallel to the recruiter process.

Fortune favors the brave so don’t be shy!

The Behavioral Interview

The acknowledged favorite of the in-house recruitment team, is the “behavioral interview”.  This is based around questions formulated so that you the interviewee provide examples of what you have done in your career to-date.  The premise is that the past dictates the future and questions are centered around the SBI model – situation, behavior, impact.

Tip for surviving: this is a formula, so practice it.

It’s actually quite helpful for your interview preparation (even if the interview isn’t behavioral) to think along the SBI lines as you will find you have to remember what the outcome of your inputs’ was (which it’s easy to forget to relay when you’re nervous and in the throes of an interview).  For you it will feel a formulaic experience, and somewhat stifled, but go with it.

The Circles of Hell

Yes this analogy is relevant, because you need the patience of a saint and the resilience of a marathon runner to survive this one.  This is the process where you are interviewed no less than 3 times and maybe up to 7; followed by some sort of test; followed by reference checks, oh and then they tell you they’ll pay $20k less than your last role, right at the end!

Tip for surviving: decide if you want to.

These companies claim they’re being thorough, but if they can’t make a hiring decision in less than X meetings, how do they get any business done?  Life’s too short for this sort of “rigor”, unless of course you’re rigorous too 🙂

The Fireside Chat

This one often feels easier than the others, because it’s just a chat right?  Like we’re buddies, aren’t we?  We’ll meet informally and have a coffee, and you can tell me a bit about you and we’ll talk through the job etc

Tip for surviving: don’t believe this isn’t an assessment, it is, it’s just a sneaky, unstructured, and off-piste, assessment.

And it’s off-putting, because it feels a bit rude to go into “interview mode” doesn’t it?  So reframe the situation for yourself by considering what it is that this manager needs this role to do.  And talk to that.  Demonstrate how you can make life easy for them.  Make their pain disappear and the job will be yours.

The Panel Interview

Commonly used in organizations that want to demonstrate that they’re unbiased i.e. government, panel interviews can be intimidating.  Sitting across a table being eyeballed by three or four strangers, it just feels pretty scary doesn’t it?

Tip for surviving: When a question is asked, smile and look at each interviewer before responding to and maintaining eye contact with the person that asked the question.  When you are finished, smile again and look at each interviewer again.  The point here is to include everyone with your body language, even though you have one point of focus in answering the question.  Caution – don’t go overboard with looking around, do it in a measured way (or else you might look a bit unbalanced!).

The Storytelling Interview

For me this is one of the trickiest interviews – usually this interviewer has been with the company for a while and has had little interview training.  Consequently, they use up 60 – 80% of the interview telling you anecdotes, stories, information (if you’re lucky).

Tip for surviving: concentrate on this interviewer’s drivers which are usually their passion for the company and the role.  Politely interrupt just as they’ve finished a story with: “That really resonates, when I was at ……”.  Tell a story of your own that shows you at your best and how you can contribute in this role.  Do this often and don’t feel guilty about it.  Remember, this interview is for you to relay information about you and your experience.

The Internal Interview

This one is tough because you know everyone.  And they know you.  So there’s no room for those little white lies about how brilliant you are.  And your mind starts playing games that they know all your inadequacies, your “development areas”.

Tip for surviving: approach it like it is an external interview and give examples, because unless they’ve been doing your job, they don’t know you.  And remember you have the advantage over external applicants because you know how the systems work, how to navigate the internal politics, are already passionate about the company so why wouldn’t you get the job?

Believe in yourself!

The Assessment Day

Usually used by companies who are hiring multiple roles, these test your substantive skill-set plus your resilience, intelligence, and social skills all over the course of a half or full day.

Tip for surviving: concentrate, and be yourself.

Yes it can be intimidating being in a room of 100 people knowing 10 are going to get “the job”, but focus on what it is you’re being asked to do and deliver to that.  And don’t forget, that your “social” skills will be being assessed at all times, so engage with those around you (unless that really isn’t you, in which case this job probably isn’t either).  Even if you don’t get an offer, you’ll learn something from the process.

The redundant TEST as final stage

This generally happens more the further up the career ladder you go.  Interviewing for a CEO job and they want to test your excel skills – really, really?

Tip for surviving: take a breath and go with it.  Get the job and change the tests!

The free work trial

This is commonly used in America and is a bit cheeky as they get a day’s labor for free; you have to demonstrate how you operate.

Tip for surviving: approach it as a learning experience – you don’t need to know everything, but you do have to show that you know enough, and how you’d go about working through the stuff that you don’t know.  As an experience it might also give you enough information to realize you don’t want to work there!  Try before you buy.

The really, really disorganized process

Who hasn’t been through one of these?  You’re all excited about the job, you get the interview, you ace it, the company loves you, they want to move you to the next stage in the process and then you get THE CALL.  The call that says: a) the hiring manager’s gone on holiday for a month, b) the budget’s been cut but they’ll be hiring again soon so they hope you’ll still be available, c) the new ……… has decided that they need ……… (insert random skill-set that has nothing to do with the job), d) they know they told you that this was the end of the process, but they’ve just decided that they need you to meet with another 2 people/ do a test/ walk to the moon (delete as appropriate).

Tip for surviving: disappointing as it may feel, cut and run.

Their lack of organization is their loss as you can’t hang around, there’s a war for talent going on out there and you are a highly sought after commodity.  Next.

Of course this doesn’t cover every interview type out there, but the above are standard selection processes that you are likely to experience at different stages in your career.

So the final “killer tip” for maintaining your sanity as you go through this process, is not to forget that this is a two-way street and that you are selecting the company just as much as they are selecting you.  I’d encourage you to only put your fantastic skills and personality to use in a company that feels like home, that shares your values and where you feel you can achieve a balance between what you give and what you get.

And remember, sometimes it is good luck not to get “the job” (even if it doesn’t feel like it at the time!).

Happy searching!

 

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